![]() I always have my makeup and hair done, that’s my normal look. “For me, it all depends on where we are going for the date. As a woman, if you put that much time, effort and thought into looking great for an evening and your date looked like he could have been heading to the pool hall with his buddies, how would you feel? How would you react? I would be very put out!” the user wrote. And the guy is wearing jeans or even shorts, an unpressed shirt and a baseball cap (even while sitting down to dinner in a nice restaurant). They are wearing pretty dresses, have their hair done, nice shoes and accessories, make-up… The whole nine yards. And I am surprised it’s so common! “Many times I have seen women, of different ages, dressed beautifully to go out. I found a Reddit thread that talks about why men don’t dress date-appropriate. ![]() In fact, it just says that they are putting effort into their dates – that they are excited about it. I mean, I know being proper is supposedly a very British thing to do, but really, they won’t take offence if Indian men dressed appropriately. As a couple, we like to be in sync, and with one person looking like they are going to a date and another looking like they’re volunteering at a beach clean is just not exciting.Īnd there have been so many dates where men turned up so not dressed for the occasion. But I would still like to see men put some effort into dressing for the date. I didn’t hold it against him because I did like him a lot but hello, would it have killed you to turn up in a nice shirt? I understand that you don’t need to be dressed up to have fun because I did have a lot of fun that night. As I walked into the bar in anticipation, there he was – in a tee so casual that he would be underdressed at the gym wearing it! Now picture this – I arrived fashionably (or not) late and he was already waiting for me at the table. So while women do have a sense of dressing for the occasion, why is it that our men are just so clueless about it? Last year, I went looking stunning (I wore my hot dress) on my date with this guy. Like weddings are, but let’s not talk about these two things in the same article or several commitmentphobes will freak. How often do you get to let your hair down and look stunning? I don’t do that often so date night is an excuse for me to dress well. But when I dress well, it just makes me feel good. Okay, it is not entirely to please my date. ![]() Then comes wearing a nice outfit, good shoes and smelling good. Waxing before the date, taking a nice long shower, washing my hair, and also blow-drying them – all this is just the prep. Men on the other hand refuse to dress up even for a fancy date. After coming from the date, I have to take all that off or I can just wake up with panda eyes. I put makeup on, even mascara and kajal and that is big deal. But when it is an official date – like when you have planned in advance and you’re going to paint the town red – I dress up. Of course, my partner must see me in my OG avatar and not just have unrealistic expectations that I will turn up like a diva all the time. I don’t always care to dress up when going out sometimes, shorts and a top-knot does the job for me. ![]()
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